How to Write Personal Vows (That Feel Like You)

Keep it modern, meaningful, and comfortably brief—about 150–250 words.

Simple structure

1. A gentle opening (“When we met… / From our first trip…”)
2. What you admire (1–3 specifics)
3. Promises (3–5 lines)
4. A closing (“I choose you, today and always”)

Tips

• Write like you speak—then polish one level up.
• Skip inside jokes that won’t age well; use one line max if you must.
• Keep the tempo: short sentences, natural pauses.
• Practice out loud, twice. Time it (~60–90 seconds).
• Send me a copy if you’d like feedback.

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